Looking for signs a married man is falling in love with you ? Are questioning his feelings for you? Almost every woman knows that men are complex beings and difficult to understand. Saying “I love you” especially for a married man is sometimes the hardest three words for him to blurt out because of the fear of rejection.
They say actions speak louder than words, therefore there are some non-verbal communication this guy could be exchanging to let you know that indeed he does love you but just not comfortable with showing that love to you verbally.
Instead of questioning him about his feelings towards you, take a look at these 4 signs that he’s falling for you.
Signs a married man is falling in love with you: He behaves differently towards you
If this man likes looking at you, sometimes eyeing you up whilst you are around him, or keep his eye on you from a distance, then it is likely that there is something he sees about your body that makes him turn his head towards you. It may be that he loves your thick, curly way hair, or the fact that you have boldly outstanding small firm breasts, or your round shaped hips or your eyes. There is something about you that is pulling him towards you and that is why he keeps on looking at you for a long time.
When you are close to him, carefully watch how frequently he looks as well as smiles at you and the eye contact. Does he smile at you more than anyone usually does? If he does, then he definitely likes you a ton times.
When you are close, does he direct his entire upper body towards you? Or point his feet at you? Or does he mirror your actions like crossing his legs? If he does, then it tells that he wants you all the time.This indicates that he may have romantic feelings for you that is why he does that.
Do you also notice a change whenever he is around you? Where he attempts to look his best, i.e he tries to look good around you. Does he always check his tie to see if it is positioned well? Does he brush his hands over his clothes? Or he just repeatedly looks at his clothes to see if he is looking smart. If so, then that is a sign that he wants to look good in front of you which is an indication of love.
Signs a married man is falling in love with you: He Smiles back when you smile at Him
I am sure you have experienced that when you like someone and you smile at him or her, the person smiles back. It is a pretty indication that you have mutual liking for each other. If you were to smile at somebody and the person did not smile back, the first thing that would come to your mind will be: ‘that person does not like me’.
In the same way, when a guy loves you, anytime you give him a smile, he will smile back because your smile will make his day and he will give back the smile positively.
Fact is, a person may like you but not smile back at you when you give him a smile, but if he loves you, when you smile at him, he will smile back.
Signs a married man is falling in love with you: He is threatened by other guys
This is another dead giveaway that the married man likes you. It is one indicator shows whether he likes you or not. If he’s jealous of the guys you hang out with, then it can only be for one reason: because he likes you and feels threatened by them. He thinks that they might take you from him. He may feel you are his and get jealous when he sees you around other men.
If this married guy shows signs that he seems to be threatened by you having a fantastic time with some other cute guy , then he may be in love with you.
For example, you are seated at the beach and he notices an attractive stranger who approaches with a nice smile and he sees you giving him back the smile, to prevent you from developing further interest in the stranger, he may decide to disrupt you by calling you for a boat ride or join your conversation.
Signs a married man is falling in love with you : His words are different
A man who is interested in you will he always finds a way to give you a compliment, whether about something so obvious like ‘you look so beautiful today’, ‘I like your skin color’ Or he may compliment about your possessions and achievements.
It’s only natural that if a man likes you, he’ll go out of his way to keep you engaged in a conversation. He may ask you questions which may seem pointless like ‘Did you eat at night? Did you sleep? This can also be an attempt to find similar interests to talk about.
A man married man who wants to have an extra marital relationship will always talk about his unhappy marriage. He will always make himself the victim of unloving, uncaring, unfaithful wife in order to gain sympathy from someone he is interested in.
Having said what I have said, what this married man is feeling for you is not love, but lust. Why would a married man be in with love you? He must love his wife!(Please read why he can’t leave his wife for you)
So,If you are not yet in a knee deep with him, don’t get involved. I advise that you resist his attempts to get be his mistress. You do not want to break up someone’s marriage, do you? What you do to others is the same thing that others will do to you. If you lead on this man and be the reason to break his marriage up, then another woman will also entice your husband one day. Turnabout is fair play without giving them the excuse.
Therefore, do not give this man space. Do not agree to be ‘the other woman’. Find your own man who will love only you.
But, if he cannot say why he is even looking at another woman while being married, if he doesn’t have a legitimate reason for being separated (at the least) from the woman he is married to….then, it’s quite possible that he just wants sex.