Mama Nkima is a marriage counselor and relationship expert who has dedicated her life to helping couples build strong, healthy relationships. She has academic degrees in Education and Psychology. She has over 40 years of experience helping couples and individuals work through their relationship issues.
She draws on her own experiences as a spiritual guide but also from years of research to offer readers practical, actionable advice.
I get a lot of these kinds of questions, does black magic work?Is black magic real?is black magic true?Yes, Black magic is real and also yes Black magic works and also black magic is true.Black magic meaning a way of achieving spiritual connection with a spiritual being, Black magic is a subset of spell casting that utilizes the use of black magic together with black soul connection practices to heal real human problems.Black magic origins can be traced to be from Africa some times called primitive, ritualistic worship of spirits or just African black magic.black magic ritual is still a big part of Mama Nkima’s day to day practice.
Root to the spiritual world
Black magic is real, black magic witchcraft or black magic spells were once used as a way of achieving closeness with spiritual beings performed with a number of rituals some of which modern people call witchcraft, black magic was always seen as a root to the spiritual world.Performed well by someone with enough powers to invoke spirits, production of benefits can be seen as a result.Black magic spells are still in much practice in so many places in the world.Africa is one of the major centres of Black magic spell casting.Here we still use this powerful ancient practice to heal people problems from all walks of the world.
Mama Nkima, I use the powers of black magic
Mama Nkima a black magic spell caster, I still heavily depend on using black magic spells practice at my shrine and I give many people joy well as results and powers to fight even the most difficult battles of their lives.I have written a number of black magic books where I go in depth with all that one needs to know about the past and the present of black magic spells.Coming from Africa, sometimes I use the powers of black magic voodoo or call them African voodoos to heal my people and solve many of there problems.
Black Magic Considered evil
Black magic is real even though it was and still is considered evil.Use for Black magic spells have time to time withstood the criticism of being evil witchcraft practice.Many religions criticize black magic and give the impression to their followers that black magic is not real.To understand the immense power of black magic you need to use it in some difficult times of your life.to understand the realness of black magic spells and witchcraft, you need to focus less of the bias that religions paint this practise, and sought for the connection with the spiritual world that it brings to your table.
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How to do black magic?
I don’t recommend the use of black magic within the hands of a not professional and experienced spell caster.Black magic spells are very powerful and as they say, with power comes responsibility, these powers are better suited to be handled by highly experienced spell casters.The use of black magic connects your soul directly to the summoning of spirits taking you away from your human body to distances far away face to face with devils, spirits in the world of the dead.What you ask there happens now imagine such kind of power in the hands of someone who know nothing about what they are doing?Stop there please if you are not a spell caster, stop asking how to do black magic leave black magic to experienced spell casters. Black magic can be used to do a lot of things.Black magic spells can be used to do harm, the same can also be used to bring joy to suffering lives.
Uses of Black Magic
Black magic spells also some times called dark magic spells, can be used to protect, Black magic can be used to force others to thing according to one’s wish, Black magic spells can be used to invoke demons and evil spirits for good or for bad it all depends to the person perform the rituals.on the other hand, Black magic spells can be used to curse troublesome neighbors there are many types of black magic curses, black magic spells can be used to destroy lives or even one’s path in life, black magic spells can be used to bring bad luck in someone’s life.
These days people have learnt to distinguish between black and white magic spell through just naming.Mostly you would find that the words above are really not more about practice any more, but more about the intent.people quickly deduce that if you perform spells with intent to cause harm, you are them performing black magic spells while as if you are intending to connect lovers, solve life hardships and all other practices to bring happiness, you are then performing white magic spells.This is not true.Black magic spells and its use is a practice the intent heavily depend on the witch or the practitioner.
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All black magic spells practice does is giving you the capability to leave your earthly body and travel distances in spirit.What you ask on your journey depends on you the practitioner not really the practice.
Can I learn black magic
Yes as long as you are ready to become a fully devoted spell caster, you can learn black magic.Learning black magic is like learning witchcraft sometimes a calling.many of us had to be called by spirits themselves before we joined the devil’s world.You can lean black magic but you have to be ready to dedicate your life to serving spirits.but along the way you gain the benefit of being someone who helps others in need of help which sometimes again depending on you the practitioner can have you paid.
Black Magic Removal
Just like i said above, black magic can sometimes be used to harm or even destroy people’s lives.Seek advice from a prominent black magic spell caster like Mama Nkima.It is not always as easy as it may sound to even determine that your life has been influenced by a black magic attack.However, if you feel like your life is stuck, problems after problems no matter what you try, feeling like you only hit wall no matter where you run to, then you need to contact a black magic spell caster around you for black magic removal.
I perform a lot of black magic removal this process is some times called cleansing.Please, don’t attempt to do black magic removal your self.Black magic is not a case of play it can be extremely dangerous if not handled carefully.but yes black magic can be removed from your life of your family.
Black magic is real, is still in use, and is still as powerful as it was then.I perform a lot of black magic spells, a lot of warlock spells using black magic practices, a lot of black magic spells for marriage.I perform a lot of voodoo magic spells, I perform a lot of candle magic spells many want to call these and other spells “witchcraft spells”.
How to remove black magic
Like I said above, removing black magic is a job better suited for an experienced spell caster and not just any spell caster, but one with a lot of knowledge about how black magic spells work.Contact me mama Nkima to help you with removing black magic from your life.
Do you have black magic for love
Black magic is a very powerful practice to facilitate connection with a spiritual being, the invocation connects me directly to the spirits now once am in the far distances of the spiritual world, what I ask depends on what my client need.This time I decide good or bad..for the good part is when I practice this ritual for nothing but just love.There is no any powerfull spell casting for love than black magic for love.Yes with the use of black magic, I can do any love spell as per your requirement using black magic for love.We can use black magic love spells to perform spells that bring back lost a lover.
Does black magic really work
Unless you have not taken the time to read this post, but yes black magic is real and black magic really works.I have helped a countless number of people from all over the world just using the powers of black magic spells.many of clients have come back to my website and have given testimonies.If that is not enough for you to see that this ancient practice of invocation of spirits works, then I don’t know how else to tell you that black magic really works.
Black magic cure
Once you suspect that you are under attack from some sort of work from black magic rituals, you can be cured if you don’t let this attack span for so long.it is really not curing, but this process is just the same process I discussed above the Black magic removal.Black magic cure and black magic removal are one in the same thing.
Free black magic spells
Am sorry but I don’t have free black magic spells.all my spells are paid for services and therefore if you need me to help you in any way, you should be aware that you will be charged and not free service.
Mama Nkima is a marriage counselor and relationship expert who has dedicated her life to helping couples build strong, healthy relationships. She has academic degrees in Education and Psychology.She has over 40 years of experience helping couples and individuals work through their relationship issues.
She draws on her own experiences as a spiritual guide but also from years of research to offer readers practical, actionable advice.
I am here to tell you that I have performed many powerful spells for many people just like you that just wanted to a spell to make him think of them.I have just the perfect spell for any woman who wants a think of me spell.Make him miss you very much that the moment he gets any free time, he only plans to spend it with you.
Who do you want me to force on the spell to make him think of you constantly?
This spell is perfect for any person that you want to manipulate into thinking and missing you.
This spell is perfect for your ex-lover or present lover.
The think of me love spell is perfect for your husband or Boyfriend in a normal happy situation and also effective in situations where you have misunderstandings.
The spell to make him think of me constantly works well for anyone special to you and for anyone whom you have never mate.
Now what best describes your current state of affairs?Though it doesn’t really matter what your current state of affairs is, its best to figure out where you are in the process.
Are you in a relationship with a man who thinks less of you?
You are loving someone who is just not loving you back?
Do you have conflicts with your lover and worried that he might stop thinking of you?
Is there someone that you just want to make crazy about you?
Do you want him to keep on checking on you at all times?
Is stopping him from thinking about any other women but only about you at all times your goal?
Have you tried all techniques on the internet to seduce him but with no results?
Spell to make him think of me constantly
Its time to force him to love you back just as much as you love him.The spell to make him think of me constantly leaves no room for another activity in his mind but to miss you like crazy.Buy my love spell to make him think of you and make him notice you and your presence to the point that you are the only time spending activity he wants to attend for each free time he gets.There are many love spells to make him think of you but my think of me spell is the only spell that leaves no stones or tables unturned and makes him think of you wire wire.
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How long does this love spells take to offer results?
Well with spells, it all depends on the situation we are creating a spell for.Time to result really depends on the current state of affairs between you and the person you want to make a love spell to make him think of you too.However, no matter the situation, this think of me spells are bound to work not long than 8days from the day the spell was cast.In most cases, it will be 2-4 days from the day this love spell was cast.Before I perform your spell casting, this is the kind of information that I provide to you even before I start on any ceremony.
Think of me spell to make someone think of you
The think of me spells is just a simpler version of the spell to make him think of me constantly.
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These ones are mostly performed when you have no negative situation between the two of you.The think of me spell is a perfect suit for people in love but kind of in a situation where one does not really think of the other. Contact me now to advise if this or any other.
Love spell to make him think of you with Mirrors
This spell is a reflection of a person you want to miss you but you have never mate to talk about your feelings.This spell perfect for situations where you have a crush on someone, but you are scared of being the first to ask him so for that reason you turn to this love spell.
Spell to make him think of me constantly
This is the main spell for making anyone think of you no matter your current state of affairs.With the spell to make him think of me constantly, it really doesn’t matter if you have met before or not.It doesn’t matter if you are in a negative space or not.This love spell takes no prisoner and it is the most effective love spell to make him think of you.
Spell to make someone text you
Making someone text you is an effect of making him think of you or miss you very much that he has to text you.This effect is of the achievable effects from the spell to make him think of me constantly.When you buy my spell to make him think of me constantly, constant text messages is part of the results that you should expect to achieve.
Come to me spell chant
These are normally chantings that I give to my clients for free to chant if they have ever performed any love spells with me.They are an extension of a particular spell so they are really not that useful on their own.
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Mama Nkima is a marriage counselor and relationship expert who has dedicated her life to helping couples build strong, healthy relationships. She has academic degrees in Education and Psychology.She has over 40 years of experience helping couples and individuals work through their relationship issues.
She draws on her own experiences as a spiritual guide but also from years of research to offer readers practical, actionable advice.
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He will be wildly considering you and thinking back of the adoration that you share together.The make him think of me spell will feature pictures of you that will make your man have musings of you first thing when he gets up in the morning.He will have a troublesome time attempting to nod off on the grounds that all he will be considering is you.Mama Nkima will likewise summon his capable spirits that will authorize steady journals of you to show up in his mind with the goal that recollections of the adoration that you have together will profoundly puncture through him so you turn into a continuous thought that never seems to leave his mind.
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Mama Nkima is a marriage counselor and relationship expert who has dedicated her life to helping couples build strong, healthy relationships. She has academic degrees in Education and Psychology.She has over 40 years of experience helping couples and individuals work through their relationship issues.
She draws on her own experiences as a spiritual guide but also from years of research to offer readers practical, actionable advice.
Are you in love with a man who is already taken?Is the guy that you have a crush on already involved with someone else?It is not good to break a relationship up for selfish reasons and I don’t advise that.However, if you want him and you want him bad, if you truly love him and think he’d be happier with you than he is with his her, then you can make him break up with his her and make him love you using Mama Nkima’s make him leave her spell.
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Or, on the other hand, do you go out on a limb and go for him?For the situation where you can’t help quit pondering him, longing for him or at whatever point you have an experience with him you get the chills or have butterflies.The best alternative for you is, go out on a limb and take care of your heart.
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Mama Nkima is a marriage counselor and relationship expert who has dedicated her life to helping couples build strong, healthy relationships. She has academic degrees in Education and Psychology.She has over 40 years of experience helping couples and individuals work through their relationship issues.
She draws on her own experiences as a spiritual guide but also from years of research to offer readers practical, actionable advice.
There are a number of reasons why a man having an affair won’t leave his wife, even if he is unhappy in the marriage and not leading a healthy relationship.
One of the reason is, he is worried about what divorce would mean for his children, or he may still have feelings for his wife.
Additionally, some men may simply be unwilling to end a relationship that they have invested so much time and energy into, regardless of the infidelity its just an emotional affair.
It does not mean, however, that a man who has cheated will never leave his wife.In some cases, the affair may be a sign that the marriage is truly over and that it is time for both parties to move on.
If a man is unhappy in his marriage and is not willing to work on repairing the relationship, then divorce may be the best option for both him and his wife.
Statistics show that infidelity only second to Domestic violence is one of the leading causes of divorce, and couples who experience infidelity are more likely to divorce than those who do not.
According to a survey conducted by the Institute for Family Study, only 13% of women reported having cheated on their spouses, whereas 20 percent of men admitted to cheating.
However, this does not mean that every marriage that experiences infidelity will end in divorce.Couples who are able to work through the affair and rebuild trust can often salvage their relationship and go on to have a happy and healthy marriage.
All the arguments above sound confusing.So what exactly are the reasons why a man having an affair won’t leave his wife?
1.He is worried about what divorce would mean for his children.
Studies have shown that children of divorced parents are more likely to experience a variety of problems, including academic difficulties, mental health issues, and behavioral problems, physical abuse.
While this may seem like a selfless act coming out as the relationship hero, it is important to remember that children are often better off when their parents are happy and healthy, even if that means they are divorced.
On the other hand Married cheating husbands abuse this fact when they want to keep their cake and eat it too.They use their children as an excuse not to leave when they are the ones who are unhappy in the marriage.
They lie to their affair partners by saying things like, “I would leave her for you in a heartbeat if it weren’t for the kids.” I don’t want to be a bad person to my kids.
2.He still have feeling for his wife.
Even if a man is unhappy in his marriage, he may still have residual feelings for his wife.In some cases, these feeling may be strong enough to keep him from leaving the marriage, even if he is involved in an affair.
Physical affair partners come and go, but a wife is usually someone who a man has invested a great deal of emotion into over the years.
As a result, it can be difficult for him to let go of the relationship just so easily, even if it is not fulfilling his needs.The emotional connection just isn’t there for the mistress.
3.He does not love his affair partner
Cheating spouse who fails to leave their spouse, seldom falls in love with the affair partner.An affair is typically about fulfilling a need that is not being met in the marriage.
In most cases, the affair partner is simply a means to an end and is not someone that the husband actually loves or feels emotionally connected to.As a result, many men are unwilling to leave their wives for someone they do not actually love, even if they are unhappy in the marriage.
To him this whole affair is just a physical affair.Reason why a man having an affair won’t leave his wife is because he treats his affair partner as an object.If he is getting sex from his mistress, he may not actually feel a need for a closer relationship.
He’s not in love with the mistress.She’s just a fantasy.He thinks she want what he has and he wants what she represent that’s it.
4.He is worried about the financial implications of divorce.
For many men, the thought of going through a divorce is a scary proposition, particularly if there are significant assets or children involved.
In some cases, men stay in an unhappy marriage simply because they do not want to deal with the hassle and expense of a divorce.Divorce is expensive and creates painful rifts in relationships.Relationship counselors recommend men should open up more often than normal.
Even though research has shown that men are more likely to remarry after a divorce than women (64% of men versus 52% of women), you must ensure that you tread these grounds with caution. (marriage.com)
5.He is worried about what people will think.
In many cultures, there is still a stigma attached to divorce, particularly for men.In some cases, men may stay in an unhappy marriage simply because they do not want to deal with the judgment and criticism that often comes with getting a divorce.
Emotional abuse, public humiliation, and being isolated from friends and family are just some of the things that men may be worried about if they choose to get a divorce.
Marrying your mistress means blowing up your marriage, family and everything else.This is not for the faint of heart .
While all of these reasons may seem valid, it is important to remember that staying in an unhappy marriage can often do more harm than good.If a man is truly unhappy in his marriage, it is often best to reach out to a professional for help in making the decision to stay or leave.
5.He thinks its too early for the mistress to understand him
Some men who have affair partners they are not in love with will stay married because they believe that their affair partner does not truly love or understand them.
In some cases, the man may feel like his wife is the only one who knows him and that no one else could ever truly love him the way she does.As a result, he may stay in the marriage even if he is unhappy, simply because he does not believe that anyone else could ever understand or love him as much as his wife does.
6.He doesn’t want to start over
For many men, the thought of starting over again is just too daunting.In some cases, men may stay in an unhappy marriage simply because they do not want to have to start all over again, both emotionally and financially.
Emotional relationships are not easy to build.Its a cultivation of memories over years.This explains why emotional relationships not like physical affairs are very hard to just end.
Some of my clients say only an evil person would make cheating spouse end his marriage contract with a non cheating spouse.
Marriage counselor Mama Nkima says that some men would rather stay in an unhappy marriage some times with physical abuse than have to start over again.
7.He does not have confidence that his AP would be different/better than his wife
This is a common reason why men cheat and why they will not leave their wives for the woman they are cheating with.
Many men do not believe that the woman they are cheating with will be any different than his current wife.
He may have already seen her flaws and he knows that she is not perfect.As a result, he may not believe that she will be any better than his current wife, so why bother leaving?
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He likes the idea of having a wife and a mistress
For some men, the thought of having a wife and a mistress is just too appealing to pass up.In some cases, men may stay in an unhappy marriage simply because they like the idea of being able to have their cake and eat it too.
These men enjoy the attention and the ego boost that comes with having a mistress, but they also like the stability and security that comes with being married.As a result, they may not be willing to give up either one, even if it means being unhappy in their marriage.
9.He believes that things will eventually get better
In some cases, men stay in an unhappy marriage simply because they believe that things will eventually get better.
Dr M Morphy believes only an insane person would hope for change with out effort.Some men still believe that being a relationship hero is about believe that things can workout better even at point of seemingly no return.
They don’t leave because they have hope in activities such as individual therapy, couples therapy and recommendations from marriage counselors can still revive their breaking marriage.
Physical passion fades in all marriages, so he believes that the current lack of intimacy is just a phase and that things will eventually improve.
He also believe that the other problems in his marriage are temporary and that they will eventually work themselves out.As a result, he may be willing to stay in an unhappy marriage rather than getting a divorce.
10.There would always be a valid excuse not to leave
Many men have valid excuses for not leaving an unhappy marriage.Some men may stay because they have young children and they do not want to disrupt their lives.
Others may stay because they do not want to deal with the judgment and criticism that often comes with getting a divorce.They don’t want to be the bad person or evil person that ends their marriage contract.
Emotional abuse, public humiliation, and being the center of a scandal are all valid reasons why a man may stay in an unhappy marriage.In some cases, the fear of losing everything is just too great and men will stay in an unhappy marriage rather than risk it all.
11.He is ashamed of his affair
If you’re married, and you feel an emotional and/or physical attraction towards someone else, then that doesn’t necessarily mean you can have a sexual or romantic affair with them.
It is easier to admit you are in a sexual relationship than in an emotional relationship?
Furthermore, it’s much more difficult to end the emotional affair than the sexual one.The best thing to do if you find yourself in this situation is to talk to your partner.
With the 11 reasons above, it’s clear to see that there are a multitude of reasons why a man may stay in an unhappy marriage.If you are a man who is considering leaving your wife, it is important to reach out to a professional for help in making the decision to stay or leave.
Next lets answer some of the frequently asked questions related to why a man won’t leave his wife even though he is unhappy and agrees to take all the emotional abuse and physical abuse.
He won’t leave his wife but won’t let me go
If you are in a relationship with a cheating spouse that wont leave his wife but wont let you go, There are psychological reasons why he wont cancel his marriage contract.
Some people stay in relationships even though they’re not happy because often they are afraid of change.Your partner is afraid of change or uncomfortable with the idea of leaving or ending his marriage contract.
Another possibility is that he most probably a type that gets some sort of emotional or psychological gratification from having two women in his life – one who is loyal and devoted to him (Emotional Relationship), and one who is “secretly” available for him to cheat on his wife with (Emotional Affair).
From your perspective, it might seem like this situation is frustrating and unfair, but it’s important to remember that you are not in control of the other person’s actions (Unless of course you want to gain the control Contact Mama Nkima to make him jump).
The only thing you can do is make decisions based on what is best for you and what makes you happy.Seek help from relationship counselors.
Signs a married man is using you.
From what i have discussed with you above, its quite clear that most reasons have something to do with that fully being fully aware that he will never leave his wife but intends to keep you either.Keeping his cake and eating it too.He sees you just like target for physical affair.
Before you spend a lot of your time on a man that’s married, you need to know weather he will leave his wife for you.
There are a number of signs that you need to be aware of that will tell you everything you need to know about his intentions.
Signs he will leave his wife for you include him telling you that he is unhappy in his marriage, making plans for a future with you, and being emotionally and physically intimate with you.
If you are seeing these signs, then it is likely that he will eventually leave his wife for you.However, If you don’t see these signs, then it’s best you sleep one eye open.
I have written quite a number of articles on this topic.These articles should help you find out hidden signs that you should not take for granted.
In these articles I share some of the top signs that a man will not or will leave his wife for you.Its very important you are aware of these signs, so you don’t end up getting your heartbroken or investing years into a relationship that will never materialize.
Some of the signs that he won’t leave his wife for you are:
1) He doesn’t include you in future plans
2) You are always the one making all the effort
How does the other woman feel when he goes back to his wife?
The feelings of the other woman may vary greatly depending on the individual woman’s psychology and relationship to the man.
Some women feel hurt, betrayed, or abandoned when the man goes back to his wife.Others may be more understanding or even relieved that the man has chosen to return to his primary relationship.
Still others may feel a combination of emotions at different times or in different situations.
What is most important for anyone involved in this type of situation is to be honest with oneself about what one is feeling, and then communicate those feelings openly and honestly with the other people involved.
It is essential that everyone involved respects each other’s feelings and tries not to judge one another too
He chose his wife but still contacts me
When someone chooses his wife but still contacts you, it mean a lot of things.
It means that he’s not over you yet and still has feelings for you.It could also mean that he wants to keep you as a backup in case things don’t work out with his wife.
Sometimes it means he misses the connection he felt with you, or he regret leaving things unresolved.
It’s also possible that this person is still attracted to you and is trying to reignite the flame.However, the most likely explanation is that this individual isn’t really over you and is hoping to get back together.
Or it could simply be that he’s a jerk who is stringing you along.
Can a married man cheat and still love his wife?
The vast majority of men who cheat on their wives do love them and are still deeply attached to them.
However, there are a few men who cheat simply because they’re looking for a physical connection with someone else and don’t really care about their wife.
The psychological reason most men cheat is because they’re not getting what they need from their wife emotionally.
Often, when a man is feeling disconnected from his wife, he’ll look for that connection elsewhere.
This can be extremely damaging to the relationship, and often leads to feelings of betrayal and mistrust.
How do you make him choose you over the other woman?
It’s not about making him choose you over the other woman.It’s about making him want to be with you and only you.
The psychology of love is complex, but there are a few basic principles that can help you make someone want to be with you.
First, it’s important to understand what makes someone fall in love.People fall in love because they are attracted to someone who meets their emotional needs.
In my article How to make him chose you over her. I go into detail about what emotional needs are and how to make sure you’re meeting them in order to make him choose you over the other woman.
Second, it’s important to create a strong bond with the person you want to be with.This can be done by spending time together, being supportive, and sharing intimate details about your life.
Conclusion
The most important thing to remember if you find yourself in this situation is that you are not alone.Many women have been in your shoes and come out the other side.
If you’re struggling to deal with your emotions, it’s okay to seek professional help.A therapist can assist you in dealing with the pain and helping you to move on.
Mama Nkima is a marriage counselor and relationship expert who has dedicated her life to helping couples build strong, healthy relationships. She has academic degrees in Education and Psychology.She has over 40 years of experience helping couples and individuals work through their relationship issues.
She draws on her own experiences as a spiritual guide but also from years of research to offer readers practical, actionable advice.
Its super hard for married men to hit on a woman until they are sure a of mutual view of affairs.
It’s not as easy for married men to start a new relationship as is for single men.For a married man, there is a lot at stake should you the miss not be of his view.
Integrity, Respect to both him and his wife is at stake should you not reciprocate.
Saying “I love you” especially for a married man is sometimes the hardest three words for him to blurt out because of the fear of rejection.
Poor them – It’s not surprising they invent all sorts of tricks to pock a stick in the whole and wait to see if anything comes out.
They say actions speak louder than words, therefore there are some non-verbal communication this guy could be exchanging to let you know that indeed he does love you but just not comfortable with showing that love to you verbally.
Instead of questioning him about his feelings towards you, take a look at these 4 signs that he’s falling for you.
In this writing i share with you some of the signals married men use to propose a relationship.You see a married man repetitively do any these signs, The ball is in your hands.
1.He looks at you with a preserved look.
man looking at her
To tell if a married man is interested in you, the first sign to lookout for is the way he looks at you.
We talk about this look so lightly than its worth.A look from a man interested in you is magnificently intoxicating.
He looks at you like he has seen an angel.A look from a man who adores you is like a look that was reserved for only you.
These looks are not hard to notice, every time he makes the looks, he makes sure you see him.
Until you reciprocate, the look frequencies keeps on growing in number.
So the next time you catch a married man looks, lookout for a simple smile on his face, then you know you have a second sign.
How do you know a married man is in love with you, has it ever happened to you?It happens to a lot of women and we are just about to blow you mind with small signs that you probably been ignoring.
2.He hides his ring when he is around
Man hiding his marriage ring
When a wedding ring disappears, it lets him play with the notion – he is free to flirt.After all no one is watching.
He feels guilty flirting with you – knowing he is married.To him, it feels like his wife is watching him flirt.Read: How to Flirt with A Married Man
So what he does?He hides it.
That rings makes him feel like there is this invisible person – wife watching him flirt with you.Hiding it makes him feel safe to flirt with you.
So if you see a ring on his fingers in his social media posts, or at times when he is with her, and that ring keeps on disappearing when he is with you – Just know that guy is actually in love with you.
3.He gets closer (Check the physical contact he makes to you)
Man making physical contact
Body language is inescapable.When we are into somebody we definitely act different than when we are friends with them.
You feel that magnetic pull of wanting to get closer to that person when get a chance to get in contact with them.
He often makes it a point to be near you, most of the time intruding in your bubble.
When he talks to you he would often touch your hand or shoulder.
Most guys would avoid touching you most especially when its early in a relationship.
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4.When you catch him looking at you – he shy away with a smile
Man shy away
Another sign a married man is interested in you, is the way he shy away after you catch him looking at you.Then he does it again.
He makes you the focal point of his gazes.
When you are close to him, carefully watch how frequently he looks as well as smiles at you and the eye contact.Does he smile at you more than anyone usually does? If he does, then he definitely likes you a ton times.
5.He engages you into conversations about your relationship
Another sign a married man has romantic feelings for you, is how he always finds a way to engage you into talking about relationships.Most of the times yours relationship.
It’s not a normal behavior for people of opposite sex that don’t know each other that much to talk about their relationship affairs.
People of opposite sex don’t just talk about each other’s relationship affairs not until you are interested in each other.
A married man interested in you would always ask you staff like how is your boyfriend, Husband etc.
The point is – if he tries so much to make you talk about your past, present, and feature relationship affairs, then that man is interested in you.
6.He keeps his eye on you from a distance
If this man likes looking at you, sometimes eyeing you up whilst you are around him, or keep his eye on you from a distance, then it is likely that there is something he sees about your body that makes him turn his head towards you.
It may be that he loves your thick, curly way hair, or the fact that you have boldly outstanding small firm breasts, or your round shaped hips or your eyes.
There is something about you that is pulling him towards you and that is why he keeps on looking at you for a long time.
When you are close:
Does he direct his entire upper body towards you?
Does he point his feet at you?
Does he mirror your actions like crossing his legs?
If he does, then it tells that he wants you all the time.This indicates that he may have romantic feelings for you that is why he does that.
7.He tries to look good around you
Do you also notice a change whenever he is around you – Where he attempts to look his best?i.e he tries to look good around you.
Does he always check his tie to see if it is positioned well?
Does he brush his hands over his clothes?Or he just repeatedly looks at his clothes to see if he is looking smart.
If so, then that is a sign that he wants to look good in front of you which is an indication of love.
8.He Smiles back when you smile at Him
I am sure you have experienced that when you like someone and you smile at him, the person smiles back.It is a pretty indication that you have mutual liking for each other.If you were to smile at somebody and the person did not smile back, the first thing that would come to your mind will be: ‘that person does not like me’.
In the same way, when a guy loves you, anytime you give him a smile, he will smile back because your smile will make his day and he will give back the smile positively.
Fact is, a person may like you but not smile back at you when you give him a smile, but if he loves you, when you smile at him, he will smile back.
9.He tells you he love you
How obvious?but read on..
But rare in married men.Married men don’t usually tell their mistresses they love them.
This is true because many times these men only utter lies to mistresses.They know the hard truth behind their secrete relationships.The truth being its all lie, he knows he won’t leave his wife.Heartless they promise a lot to get what to the center of their mistresses legs.
Not all married men are heartless.Its just a hard fact, There is one word they never say to their mistresses.Married men never tell mistresses they love them.
So When a married man tells you he loves you.Smile for a milestone.
When a married man says i love you, is one of the signs a man is in love with his mistress.
You know he is in love with you when he starts to verbally confess to your affection to him.
Though just saying i love you does not guarantee he will leave his wife for you, at least its a sign the from many married men tend to say to mistresses.You got him to open up and confessed his affection to you.
10.He gets jealous when he sees you around other men.
This is another dead giveaway that the married man likes you.It is one indicator shows whether he likes you or not.
If he’s jealous of the guys you hang out with, then it can only be for one reason: because he likes you and feels threatened by them.He thinks that they might take you from him.He may feel you are his and get jealous when he sees you around other men.
If this married guy shows signs that he seems to be threatened by you having a fantastic time with some other cute guy , then he may be in love with you.
For example, you are seated at the beach and he notices an attractive stranger who approaches with a nice smile and he sees you giving him back the smile, to prevent you from developing further interest in the stranger, he may decide to disrupt you by calling you for a boat ride or join your conversation.In my Signs a married man is jealous you will find proven signs that your married boyfriend is jealous of you.
11.He compliments you
A man who is interested in you will he always finds a way to give you a compliment, whether about something so obvious like ‘you look so beautiful today’, ‘I like your skin color’ Or he may compliment about your possessions and achievements.
12.He immerse himself in your life
It’s only natural that if a man likes you, he’ll go out of his way to keep you engaged in a conversation.He may ask you questions which may seem pointless like ‘Did you eat at night? Did you sleep?This can also be an attempt to find similar interests to talk about.
13.He make himself the victim of unloving, uncaring, unfaithful wife
A married man who wants to have an extra marital relationship will always talk about his unhappy marriage.He will always make himself the victim of unloving, uncaring, unfaithful wife in order to gain sympathy from someone he is interested in.
He wants to start opening up to you and wants to tell you whats going on with him emotionally.Men have a habit of being vulnerable to women in this way as a symbol to her that she is special to him.
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Society wants you to put want they want first, When is it time to put what you want first?
Like Mama Nkima answered this Quora question, If a married man is in love with you, he will most likely leave his wife for you.He may not be ready to do so right away, but if he’s truly in love with you, he will eventually come around and leave her.
When he’s finally free of that commitment and able to be with you, he’ll show his true feelings.
Another thing to look for is whether or not the man is willing to put in effort to be with you.If he’s really in love with you, he’ll go out of his way to make time for you and spend time with you.
A married man who’s truly in love with you will do whatever it takes to be with you.He’ll leave his wife and children for you, and he’ll never look back.So if you want to know whether a married man is truly in love with you, just make him leave her.The answer will be clear soon enough.
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Faq
What makes a man fall deeply in love with a woman?
Men falls in love with a woman because he feels a special connection with her.In other instances, its the level of comfort a man feels when he is with that woman.Married men fall in love with other women to run away from luck of satisfaction from their relationships.
How to make a married man fall madly in love with you?
Make every moment with you memorable. Be the woman that acknowledges what his wife doesn’t. Give him attention, most married men would crave for physical attention for years.I have a full article on the subject here.
What to do when you fall in love with a married man?
Control your expectations, never call him when he is with his family, make every moment with you memorable.Don’t make him chase you.Men don’t fall in love with women who make them chase.Don’t worship him.Men don’t quickly get turned off with non challenging woman.Make a spell to make him leave his wife
Signs a married man secretly loves you.
If a married man secretly loves you, and falling in love with you, one of the signs may be that he tries to spend as much time with you as possible.Another sign may be that he makes an effort to hide his affection from his wife.
If you’re in a relationship with a married man and you believe that he loves you, the best thing you can do is force him to divorce his wife and commit to being with you.Don’t wait around hoping that things will change; they rarely do.Be proactive and take charge of your own destiny.You deserve to be happy and loved wholeheartedly, and there’s no reason why you should have to settle for anything less.
There are many signs a married man secretly loves you, but the most obvious one is when he’s forced to divorce her.If he’s truly in love with you, he’ll leave his wife and be with you.Otherwise, he’s just using you for sex and will never leave his wife.Read: Why he can’t leave his wife for you.
Signs a married man likes you but is hiding it
There can be many signs a married man likes you, but is hiding it. One of the most common sign a married man likes you more than a friend is that he’ll start to act differently around you.He might become more flirty, or even seductive.He may also try to spend more time with you, or even make an effort to get closer to you emotionally.
Another sign a married man likes you more than a friend can be that he’ll become distant from his wife.He may stop being as attentive to her, or even start neglecting her altogether.This can often lead to marital problems, as the wife will start to sense something is going on and will become increasingly suspicious.
Below are some of the signs to lookout for in a married man that you suspect is hiding his feelings for you.These are signs a married man wants to cheat with you.Read the article i have attached below.
When a married man only wants to sleep with you, it’s important to remember that you are not his only option.He is cheating on his wife with you, and he will continue to cheat on her with other women if you don’t make him choose between you and her.
Obviously, this is easier said than done, and it could end up being a costly and dangerous endeavor.But if you can somehow find the courage and resources to do it, hopefully you can finally free yourself from this manipulative and destructive relationship.Read: Lies married men tell their mistresses.
It may seem harsh, but the best way to make him choose is to force him to divorce her.If he really loves you and wants to be with you, he will do whatever it takes to be with you.And if he doesn’t want to be with you enough to leave his wife, then it’s probably time for you to move on anyway.
Married man likes me, but talks about his wife.
You’re in a pickle.You like this married man, but he talks about his wife all the time.What do you do?
The best thing you can do in this situation is to directly confront him about it.Tell him that you don’t appreciate hearing about his wife all the time and that it’s really getting in the way of your relationship.
Be assertive, but also be understanding.Perhaps he’s just trying to gauge your reaction to see how you feel about his wife.
If a married man is talking to you about his wife, it’s possible that he’s just trying to gauge your reaction.He may be testing the waters to see if you’re interested in hearing more about his relationship or if you’re available for something more.Read: Do married men miss their mistresses?
If he continues talking about her even after you’ve asked him nicely to stop, then you might have to take more drastic measures.He’s obviously not respecting your wishes, so you’ll have to force him to divorce.Read: How to Win a Married Man over His Wife?
14 Secrete Signs a married man is falling in love with you
He looks at you with a preserved look.
When you catch him looking at you – he shy away with a smile
He engages you into conversations about your relationship
He keeps his eye on you from a distance
He tries to look good around you
He Smiles back when you smile at Him
He tells you he love you
He gets jealous when he sees you around other men.
He compliments you
He immerse himself in your life
He make himself the victim of unloving, uncaring, unfaithful wife
Conclusion
Having said what I have said, what this married man is feeling for you is not love, but lust. Why would a married man be in with love you?He must love his wife!(Please read why he can’t leave his wife for you)
So,If you are not yet in a knee deep with him, don’t get involved.I advise that you resist his attempts to get be his mistress.
You do not want to break up someone’s marriage, do you?What you do to others is the same thing that others will do to you.If you lead on this man and be the reason to break his marriage up, then another woman will also entice your husband one day.Turnabout is fair play without giving them the excuse.
Of course unless you are ready to perform some love spells to protect your relationship against all the wanna be his.
Therefore, do not give this man space.Do not agree to be ‘the other woman’.Find your own man who will love only you.
But, if he cannot say why he is even looking at another woman while being married, if he doesn’t have a legitimate reason for being separated (at the least) from the woman he is married to….then, it’s quite possible that he just wants sex.You can find some tips in my how to stop dating a married man? if you wanna leave him
Should you want to force him to leave his wife you!
Mama Nkima is a marriage counselor and relationship expert who has dedicated her life to helping couples build strong, healthy relationships. She has academic degrees in Education and Psychology.She has over 40 years of experience helping couples and individuals work through their relationship issues.
She draws on her own experiences as a spiritual guide but also from years of research to offer readers practical, actionable advice.
Are you in love with a man in a relationship with someone else?Would he leave his wife for a mistress(for you or anyone else in the same boat)?or you don’t know where it is heading.Am asking all that because I know it is a tough situation being the other woman especially if the man is married and not just in a relationship.You have to give up the assurance of daily contact with someone you love, the security of being able to call him at 1 am when you wake up from the scaring dream.You can’t give him a casual phone call and expect him to pick it up.You are the “dirty little secret who is kept hidden and not spoken of.You are alone on Christmas Day, on Saturday nights. And unless you have friends who accept your relationship, there was no way to share your love life with others.
Of course, someone would think: anyone in their right mind would never get into this situation at the get-go… but then again, how many of them have fallen in love and followed what their brain said instead of their heart?
Often, when women get involved with the attached men, they then reduce themselves to feeling or acting pathetic and finally these men take away their power.It’s like watching a car crash happening in slow motion and you can’t do anything to stop it!
It is as if these men are born by the same mother…they all mastered the art of lying, the art of feeding women with sweet words and empty promises.It’s fairly common for a cheating husband to tell his mistress that he is miserable in his marriage and wants to get out.
However, there are a few key assumptions that I believe a cheating man who has an affair with the other woman think about before deciding whether he should leave his wife or not.So since I happen to interact with people from all walks of life, am here to tell you what such a man always have in his mind.
Would he leave his wife for a mistress?Quite hard because there are issues which must be taken into considerations.
The “chances” a man leaves a scrambled marriage for another he has fallen for depending greatly on factors such as the assets and financial situation, whether he stands a chance of seeing his children if he upsets a bitter ex-wife, cultural beliefs and much more.It is not the same as everyone.
My close sister and her husband were married for 60 years until her husband’s death.Quite a solid moral marriage with value, right?They had such a miserable relationship that they did not live together for the last twenty years, and when we gathered as a family they made us all mad.My sister would not give him a divorce because Christianity condones divorce.
A dear friend and an excellent soul found out about his wife having an affair and soon after met and fell deeply in love with another woman.Despite being unhappy in his marriage and desperately wanting to leave and be with her, he could not stand to be without his children or to disappoint them by allowing them to grow up with single parents.He stayed in his marriage and ended the intimate relationship with the other woman.He says he still loves his former mistress; they stayed the best of friends and talk almost every day.They are just roommates with his wife.It’s only the son who isn’t unhappy.So it’s not that simple.
Would he leave his wife for a mistress?Yes It is possible but the mistress has to be a great woman
Numerous relationship experts show that if a husband’s extramarital affair doesn’t break up a marriage in the first couple of years, it won’t ever.
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The experts further report that only 20% of men involved in an affair leave their wives for the mistress.
However for a mistress to fall in a very small circle of the population which can win over her affair partner, she has to be a woman that knows that relationships aren’t about becoming one with the other person.A woman who is strong with her own life, friends and her own sense of belonging.Someone who doesn’t need constant attention and, someone who doesn’t need society endorsement.For that kind of woman, I think who can manage to have a healthy relationship.A woman who can’t handle the other woman game is usually that who needs constant reassurance, a woman who needs to be taken care of, a woman who is needy and possessive; a woman who needs to have children and start her own family.
Would he leave his wife for a mistress?Only possible if he is very decisive
A man could be deeply in love with his mistress, but not have the courage to leave his wife. A relationship that begins when one or both of you are committed to someone else will always have a fundamental flaw in the foundation.I mean, being kept under wraps (a secret), forbidden relationship in the first place..all that speaks to his level of courage from the word go.It is really hard for a man to leave a wife even if his heart is with a mistress.
The combined finances ( including the money that he banked on to retire at some level of comfort), the division of property, Cost of divorce, legal implications, custody issues, loss of friends, judgment from closed ones.
There are some pretty huge potential costs in walking away from a partner and It’s much easier to NOT rock the boat.There is a lot more under the surface for him to think about than the pulsing thought of ‘I love her’.It takes an incredible leap of belief in oneself, has faith that the future will get brighter, a big F-you to social conventions, and a strong force of willingness for him to leave.
Would he leave his wife for a mistress?I don’t think so because he still wants surety
Apparently, his bread is still being buttered on both sides ( he has you and the wife).But he is thinking hard about his life after divorcing her.Will you be there for me still?Won’t you disappoint me?These are the words that are only echoing in his heart.
He wants to be guaranteed that if he leaves her for you, that you will never leave him.He wants to be sure he can have you if he didn’t have her. Furthermore, he is weighing up his options.But he is seeing you as someone who is always accidentally stirring the pot and finds staying with his wife as the safest option. He can’t risk being disappointed by someone else and suffering the shame of being left alone after leaving a marriage for someone else.
In conclusion
Everyone’s one choice is their own responsibility and it’s not in my place to judge.I myself wouldn’t recommend being a mistress as a first priority.But if you need someone in your life to comfort you, talk to, cuddle with and provide the affection that you are not getting, it’s hard to turn that down.I believe these relationships are inevitable until one finds Mr Right.
Mama Nkima is a marriage counselor and relationship expert who has dedicated her life to helping couples build strong, healthy relationships. She has academic degrees in Education and Psychology.She has over 40 years of experience helping couples and individuals work through their relationship issues.
She draws on her own experiences as a spiritual guide but also from years of research to offer readers practical, actionable advice.
The reason why he can’t leave his wife for you is he is not looking for something serious.He has it at home already.Instead, he is looking for someone he can be silly with.
Ever since I wrote a post about the ‘signs that he will leave his wife‘ which is a couple of weeks back, I have got many questions, ‘When is he going to leave her?’ Why does he claim he loves me when he won’t leave his wife?Why hasn’t he left her yet? , flooding in via my inbox.
Unfortunately, haven’t yet received any notices saying – ‘I Was the Other Woman — But Now I’m the Wife.’
Instead, the feeds I get, are from people with heart breaks that come from being the third party in a relationship.
People who are left in tears with first-hand lesson that men naturally never choose their mistresses over their wives. Because there are doubtless many women still in this situation trying to figure out ‘why’
In today’s article, I’ve put together a list of the eight most common reasons why he can’t leave his wife for you (mistress).
1.He does not love you
The most obvious reason why he can’t leave his wife for you is, He does not love you.I don’t mean he does not care for you.He cares for you and also enjoys your company.
But if he loved you and was in a loving relationship with you, he would be willing to leave everything behind to be with you even if that means his entire family.
Divorce has one of the most difficult effects on any individual’s life.It affects everyone involved.If a man loves you, he won’t care about the unpleasant consequences of divorce.He would pack up and leave without questions.
A man who is truly in love with a woman will do anything to be with her, including leaving his spouse.
So the fact that he is not willing to leave his wife for you simply means that he does not love you as much as you love him.
2.The Comfort of getting what he wants
Another reason he cant leave his wife for you is he gets what he wants from both relationships without commitment to your side.
Think about it, if one of the reasons married men leave their wives is trying to fill a void that is missing in their marriage relationship.If you provide the missing void before he breaks his marriage contract.You solve his missing puzzle.You give him what he wants before he faces his fears of divorce?
If he feared to loose custody of his children but lucked emotional bond, if you give him emotional bond, it means now he has both what he want.He has the missing emotional bond.on the other hand he get to stay with his children.
Don’t you see it, why bother get into mixed up unhealthy relationships leaving his wife for you when he has it both.He gets the care from your side.
Ever heard of the common saying “why buy a cow when you can get the milk when you want it” He gets what he wants: two relationships and no responsibility to hold to any commitments.
He is already receiving “the other woman benefits” (whether that be sex, physical and emotional intimacy affection or anything else) and still go back to his wife.
For him to leave his wife is pointless.In no way it works to his advantage.He doesn’t share your sense of urgency and desperation.
You are his spare Tyre and he is so comfortable with letting you play as his second fiddle despite your insistence that he make a clean break and be with you
The third reason why he cant leave his wife for you is he is scared of the consequences of divorce.
In my healing practice, I work with a variety of people: men and women, those ranging from the mid-20s to early 60s, and interesting people from different walks of life, from a small-town Man to a career woman in a big city.
While my clients approach me with a variety of challenges, one particular challenge that falls in my inbox always is a man wants to leave his wife but he is afraid of divorce.
He is afraid of what happened to his children after the divorce since his wife often use the “I’ll take the kids with me and you’ll never see them again” card during arguments.
Too often men are scared of the legal system because they have watched/heard a lot of stories of being “taken to the cleaners” in divorce court.
There are responsibilities to think about.It’s money, security, feelings, children, reputation—everything that has been built up together with the other partner has to break down.
Because of the fear for divorce proceedings men are stuck with their toxic wives in some times abusive relationships because their only alternative is a divorce that promises financial ruin and part-time fatherhood.
4.The “good guy” effect – He is scared of losing public respect
Another reason he can’t leave his wife for you is his feet are tied up and he is likely to keep them that way as long as he can eat out once in a while.He is scared to be the bad guy.
In my personal experience practicing marriage counseling, the worst kind of breakup to any non toxic person is when they clearly know that it was their fault to breakup.
A breakup where you can’t claim that you were the trusting partner who was acting in a good faith but got hurt by someone else.A break up where you are responsible for, not the guilty one, not the victim but the perpetrator.Is a horror dream to most cheating husbands.
Therefore, however much this guy may want to leave, he is scared to be the bad seed.He is scared of losing respect for his kids, family and friends.
He is scared of giving up his shared social life and mutual friends who may be forced to take sides.His feet are tied up and he is likely to keep them that way as long as he can eat out once in a while.
5.Fear of another man fathering his children
Another reason he can’t leave his wife for you is he can’t bear the thought of him seeing another man coming into his children’s lives after separation.
The thought of another man fathering his children is unbearable, to begin with.He is troubled with the idea of another man-step father in competition with him for the love of children.
He is troubled with another man with no connection at all with his kids other than marrying their mother coming in and disrupt the little delicate balances that often exists in a separated family.
6.Why he can’t leave his wife for you – He can’t make you his wife
Men may seem dumb, but they are smart when they want to be.They know which woman to bring home to family, which women to show off to their friends, which women to take for parties and the one to bring home after late-night bars.
Your partner probably doesn’t win you the traits for his potential wife.He can’t see you as a woman he would put home to be his wife.So, not until he finds someone who is worth it, he won’t leave his wife.
7.He honors his vows
He can’t leave his wife for you because he is still attached to the vows he made with his wife at the time of their union.
Though he cheats on his wife as many men do, he is the kind who takes his marriage seriously and is committed to spending the rest of his life with her.
He is finding it hard to snap those bonds and throw those promises to the dust bin.There is something positive about his character which is ‘honoring his vows’.
After all, would you really be OK with taking a chance with a man who doesn’t respect commitments?Wouldn’t you be worried that he might one day repeat the pattern by breaking his commitment to you?Past performance is generally the best predictor of future behavior.
8.He isn’t truly in love with you
This is the other reason why he can’t leave his wife for you and it is probably the hardest pill to swallow.
In my opinion, it is the major reason for his lack of commitment to only you.He just enjoys the benefits that he gets from you.
He may care for you but doesn’t mean that he is in love with you.There isn’t a true connection, but you what provide is enough to keep him around.It just may not be enough to leave his wife who was there for him for years.
9.You are Just for Fun
Most cheating men when caught or confronted usually justify their behavior with statements like.
“just because someone is married does not mean that they can’t have someone aside too”,
‘I’m not doing anything that most of my buddies don’t do”.
If you don’t believe me, ask them’.
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This really hurts to hear but even in a happy marriage.It is possible for men to have a roving eye or even crave affection from another lady.
For a lot of men, an affair is not about the person or even the sex.It’s about the thrill – of the chase, of the secrecy and yes, even the deceit.
He is enjoying the naughtiness that is lacking from his honest relationship with his wife.He is not looking for something serious – he has it at home already.Instead, he is looking for someone he can be silly with.
Now that we have seen some of the reasons why he can’t leave his wife for you.Let digest some of the questions around the topic.
One of the reason is, he is worried about what divorce would mean for his children, or he may still have feelings for his wife.
Additionally, some men may simply be unwilling to end a relationship that they have invested so much time and energy into, regardless of the infidelity its just an emotional affair.
It does not mean, however, that a man who has cheated will never leave his wife.In some cases, the affair may be a sign that the marriage is truly over and that it is time for both parties to move on.
Will he leave his wife statistics?
Statistics show that only 5% of married men leave their wives for the other woman.If he left his wife for you, statistics that your marriage will last and not pretty, marriages that began due to infidelity have a 75 to 90% chance of ending divorce again.
The odds are not in your favor, which supports the adage that married men never leave their wives, but even if they do, he won’t be a pretty life for her.
However, there are some success stories of ex-mistresses who are now the wife, and the marriage is doing well.
Rumor has it that Gwen Stefani was Blake Shelton’s girlfriend while he was still with Miranda Lambert, and guess what not the wife is.
Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt, Gabrielle Union and Dwayne, Hailey and Justin Bieber, and so on, there are so many examples of lovers who are now the wives.
Will a married man ever leave his wife for another woman?
A married man might leave his wife for another woman, but it’s not always because he’s necessarily unhappy in his current relationship.
Sometimes a married man will have an affair with another woman because he’s bored or unsatisfied with his current marriage and is looking for something new and exciting.
Other times, a married man might leave his wife for another woman because he’s not happy with the way things are going in their relationship and wants to find someone who can make him happier.
In general, most married men will not leave their wives for another woman.
This is because many married men have invested a lot of time and effort into building their marriages and may not want to risk losing everything they have worked so hard for.
Additionally, many married men don’t want to deal with the hassle and drama that often comes with splitting up a family and starting anew with another woman.
Finally, many married men may simply be content with their current lives and do not feel the need or desire to change things up.
Is it good to stay in a marriage for your children?
If both parents are happy and in a good place then it’s obviously better for the children to have two happy, stable parents around.
However, if one or both of the parents are miserable in the marriage, it’s not always better for the children to stay in that situation of a bad relationship.
The most important thing is that the children see their parents being supportive and loving towards each other, even if they’re no longer together.
This sends a strong message that even though things might not have worked out romantically, mom and dad still care about each other and will always be there for their kids.
So should you stay in a loveless marriage for kids?if you’re not happy in your marriage and staying for the kids is just prolonging their exposure to an unhappy home life, it might be better to consider leaving.
No one deserves to be miserable.Least of all parents who are supposed to serve as role models for their children.
How do you tell if a married man will leave his wife for you?
You tell if a married man will leave his wife for you If the man is always secretive about his phone and computer usage to his wife.
You can also tell if he would leave his wife for you If he’s constantly making excuses to avoid being around his wife.If he’s becoming more distant from her.These could all be warning signs that he’s planning on leaving his wife for you.
It’s important to remember that there are many reasons why a man might start pulling away from his wife.So to know, it’s not always an indication that he plans on leaving her.
To make a married man crazy for you include being loving and attentive towards him, being loyal and supportive, being flirtatious and playful, and keeping things exciting and new.Ultimately, the key is to be genuine in your affection for him and to make him feel appreciated, desired, and loved.
It’s hard to leave a toxic marriage because often people become emotionally and financially dependent on their spouses.Leaving a toxic marriage can be a very difficult and scary thing to do.But it is sometimes necessary in order to find happiness and peace.
If you’re considering leaving your toxic marriage, it’s important to be sure that you have a solid support system in place to help you through the process.
Reach out to trusted friends.Reach out to family members.I encourage you to seek out counseling or therapy to help you through this tough decision.
What to do when he won’t leave his wife?
Who is “he” and what is your relationship to him?If you’re asking this question in regards to a married man that you are involved with.The one who is not willing to leave his wife.Then it is necessary to cast a spell on him to make him leave her.
There are many spells that can do this.It’s best to find a spell that is specifically tailored to your situation.
Once the spell is cast, It will help to change his mind.It will make him see that you’re the one for him.This will help get him to leave his wife and be yours instead.
However, it’s important to note that this kind of thing should only be used as a last resort.You should always consult with an experienced spell caster before proceeding.
Do I need support to change my pattern of staying in bad relationships?
Yes, you need support to change your pattern of staying in bad relationships.Oftentimes, people stay in bad relationships because they are afraid of being alone or they don’t believe that they are worthy of a healthy relationship.
These are very common issues that can be addressed in therapy.
If you’re not sure where to start, I would recommend looking for a therapist who specializes in relationships or codependency.
The main goal of therapy is to help you become aware of the patterns that keep you stuck in unhealthy relationships.It also gives you the tools necessary to make healthy changes.
What makes a man decide to leave his wife?
There are a variety of reasons why a man decides to leave his wife.Some of the most common ones include.
Feeling neglected and unimportant
Them feeling like they are not good enough for there wife
Feeling like they’re not being heard or understood.
In many cases, it’s often the little things that add up over time and make a man feel like he’s no longer valued in his relationship.
When a husband feels like he’s constantly putting all of his effort into the relationship and getting nothing back in return, it can be discouraging and eventually lead to him packing up his bags and leaving.
First, you should carefully consider the consequences of your actions.If you decide to go ahead with it, there are a few things you’ll need to do.Its your effort to make the transition as smooth as possible.
1.Make sure you have a solid plan in place.You’ll need to have a place to stay, money saved up, and a new job lined up.
2.Tell your wife the truth.It’s best for both of you to be honest and upfront about what’s happening.
3.Be prepared for some backlash.Your wife may try to fight for custody of the children.She may try to sue you for divorce settlement money.Be prepared for anything she throws at you and
For a full guide on how to leave your wife for another woman, read my article –How to leave your wife for another woman.In this article i go deep on step by step guide on how to leave your wife for another woman.
Conclusion
There are often a lot of underlying reasons why he can’t leave his wife for you.From feeling obligated to stay in his marriage for the sake of his children to not wanting to deal with the hassle of starting anew, there are many factors that can keep a man from leaving his wife.
If you’re in a relationship with a married man and you’re hoping that he’ll leave his wife for you, it’s important to be patient and understand that there may be a lot of obstacles in your way.
The best thing you can do is try to be supportive and understanding.At the same time also work on yourself so that you can be the best possible partner for him.
Mama Nkima is a marriage counselor and relationship expert who has dedicated her life to helping couples build strong, healthy relationships. She has academic degrees in Education and Psychology.She has over 40 years of experience helping couples and individuals work through their relationship issues.
She draws on her own experiences as a spiritual guide but also from years of research to offer readers practical, actionable advice.
Looks like every second everywhere nowadays men are walking out on faithful wives, leaving their innocent sons and daughters.In my observation, the level of unexpected marital failures is becoming increasingly common.But why is it on the rampant?Why men leave their wives?It is quite sad.
Some of these men are solo thinker self-absorbed overgrown adults who can’t see past their own nose.They cannot place anything above their own satisfaction. But hey, listen-not all of them.Some are just looking for something they haven’t found yet.That’s why today it’s hard to distinguish a bad guy from the usual ones.
There is a harsh truth about the today an unhappy man who intentionally leaves his relationship/marriage.There is a reason, it might not be justifiable but hey it is a reason still-for all broken hearts, dismantled homes, broken lives and disappointments.
So we are looking at the 5 reasons why men leave their wives.
Boredom
Just under a third of divorce cases are bought up due to boredom.
A cording to E-news, Boredom was the catalyst behind about a 15 months relationship between Calvin Harris, 33 Scottish record producer, DJ, singer, songwriter, and musician whose real name is Adam Richard Wiles and Taylor Swift, a 27 popular American singer-songwriter. Calvin was the one who broke up with her.The spark in their relationship had fizzled out long before he called it quits. He was bored for a while and was hoping the spark would come back but it didn’t. “Another insider also told E!News Harris “started to lose interest over the past few months” and that the two were “not very compatible” and “seemed like they were more friends than lovers.” He was bored before even the split.
I always wonder why when we are in a new relationship, we put in so much energy in it.We try out different things, surprise our partners, dress up well and even always smell nice.But after months or years, we stop bothering.We stop giving a damn about all the little things we enjoyed together which gave the spark and the sparkle of the romance.
A woman can be gentle, smart, polite, hard-working, take care of the businesses, and all his relatives like her.There is nothing wrong with her, but it isn’t enough.Gents are human who craves for variety and hates the daily routine.
Lack of trust
Some women have trust issues because they experienced something in their past which made them feel neglected by the person they trusted and loved.They have negative experiences in the past with the people they initially trusted.They have the fear of being abandoned like they were once done before.In addition, they have the uncertainty of whom, how and when to trust.
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These kinds of women draw their insecurities towards their men.They are controlling and always need their husbands to justify or defend where they have been, need an explanation as to why they are with certain people so on and so on.
One man on a certain forum elaborated how trust issues led him to split with his wife.He described his journey where his wife instructed him to take photos everywhere he was with time stamps to prove that he is where he was supposed to be. He finally got tired always doing it and left her.
Men find it unattractive to be with a needy person who refuses to trust them.It is soul-crushing for them to be with someone who doesn’t trust them. However much he loves you, prolonged trust issues can destroy your healthy relationship.The women’s population is too big in that whatever he loves in the wife can find it in someone else who doesn’t need justification and they are always happier.
Marital affairs
Though commitment and communication can be perfect in a marriage, cheating can still occur.A man usually cheat in the phase of compassionate love where he is contented with the solid life has have built together with his wife, the kids he has, everything is settled but only one thing is missing- romance.
He may cheat because his wife is no longer giving him the romantic gesture that she used to give him before during their honeymoon days.Or he may simply just cheat.But if a man wakes up with the other woman who can sweep off his feet even if it’s about whispering sweet nothing words into his ears, he will leave his wife thinking that it will be the same for the next 40 years.
Why men leave their wives?Lack of sexual relations.
Sex and being sexual compatibility are one of the major important parts of sustaining a relationship.Much as they say men only care about satisfying their sexual needs, that they head right for women’s genitals and skip foreplay.But, that’s not the case with the real men.Real men know that sex is good if it is good for all the people involved.Real men say sex is satisfying when she enjoys it as much they do.Men want to be made to feel desirable.If he feels like he is not satisfying you, sex will not be pleasurable to him.With a prolonged lack of sexual chemistry, a man finds himself sexually attracted to another person, get involved in a marital affair and eventually pack his bags and leave.
An emotionally abusive woman controls her man by manipulating his area of failure as a lover, provider, protector, or father: “I could have married my first boyfriend who made more money, I had more satisfying sex with my last husband, you’re really not a man enough, and you know nothing about the simple basics of raising kids. “After some time this kind of the emotional climate and manipulation can drain the life out of the marriage.It can make a man walk on an eggshell for fear of being reminded about what he cannot do or provide.He eventually gets tired and leaves.
Mama Nkima is a marriage counselor and relationship expert who has dedicated her life to helping couples build strong, healthy relationships. She has academic degrees in Education and Psychology.She has over 40 years of experience helping couples and individuals work through their relationship issues.
She draws on her own experiences as a spiritual guide but also from years of research to offer readers practical, actionable advice.
You are in an early relationship with your man, he loves you and you love him.So far everything is perfect and things could get any better …except for the nauseating clinger woman he dated before with a long history together.His ex won’t leave him alone.
Now that he’s gone, she sees how she messed up and calling him tirelessly with an effort to sabotage your relationship and trying to get him back in her life.She seems to want to break you apart.She is ignoring the fact that he is a committed relationship with you.
Your man claims that he has no feeling for her and they are just friends.And yet on your side, you are a bit scared of their long history together and her great persistence but then again you don’t want to act like the crazy girlfriend who is insecure about the ex by questioning him. You feel she has no right to constantly interfere in his life but you are also like ‘its not my place to get involved’.
It’s hard to create a loving and trustworthy relationship when your partner’s ex is still in his life.So here are the four lists of things to do when his ex won’t leave him alone.
Evaluate the Circumstances
Before you complain that His ex won’t leave him alone, you need to approach this situation with compassion.Evaluate and approach this matter in a reasonable manner.See if they are any reasons for his ex to stay in contact.Perhaps her reason to intrude on your relationship is about her dedication to their children?Or they share some businesses that they need to talk about such as credit cards?If yes, then no matter what kind of a monster his ex is, there will come a time when you need to get along and fueling the fire won’t be the solution.Understand that the history they have together extends beyond you.This can be tough but you have to be mindful about your role and your place in his life.He is with you because he clearly loves you.
Therefore stay out of their issues.If there are some unsolved matters between him and his ex, it should be between them not you.The only way you can be there for your man is by giving the emotional support that he needs and to trust him that he will handle them.
Ask Him to Handle It
Perhaps his Ex won’t leave him alone because she doesn’t see things like the way you see them.She knows that they had a solid history which is had to break.She sees you as his rebound.Or she still has questions in her head and its time for your boyfriend to be the bad guy and do a great job of communication.He should give her a solid answer and a clear boundary.
Talk to him and see if he can do it.He can send him an email address with something like, ‘my relationship with you ended and we parted ways, and I’m happily in a new relationship with this beautiful woman… I have got a friend and I don’t have space in my life for the kind of friendship we once had.I am going to block you so I won’t be able to receive your messages.I wish you all the best in life.’
The real issue here is for him to make a clear signal to her and afterwards drop the whole issue.Let’s see if her name comes up with all the contacts blocked.
And please don’t forget to tell your man that he has to be honest with people even if it’s bitter and uncomfortable.It’s not in your place to suggest to him that he should tell his ex that you exist.
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Society wants you to put want they want first, When is it time to put what you want first?
Why hasn’t he told her already?It is not good to be in a relationship with someone so submissive, because how will you know that there is an issue between the two of you if he is afraid of confrontation or to cause trouble?
Ignore her
Some bitter exes know how to project their anger to the current partners their exes are dating.If she is kind, please ignore her.I know it takes a lot of strength and energy to ignore this pushy and annoying toxic ex, but don’t let her win at pissing you off.Given time, she will calm down or back off.
Her aim is to have some control in your relationship.So, any response from you will feed into what she is trying to do.If she forces communication or physically confronts you, ignore her.Refer it to your man and move on.The less attention you give her the better.Your silence will speak louder in this kind of situation than actually your words ever would.Just know, you do not need to attend every party you’re invited to.No one can spoil your day without you giving them permission.Remember, heart break and the hunger his ex is feeling is not about you and did not come from you and neither can you control it.However, you can control the way you react to it.
Have you ever heard of a phrase ‘kill them with kindnesses as a way of dealing with difficult people?I also love this cliché which says “there are no bad people, but people who do bad things” and “they must have been hurt”.This statement is true here because probably this ex was the one dumped and hasn’t moved on yet and seeing her ex moving on beats her to the core.She still has that bitterness which isn’t about you but her.
Well rather than spitting fire to her, chose to act kindly.Decide to be a bigger and better person here.This may seem odd but it works perfectly well.I mean who can stay mad at a calm person?If you are uncomfortable with the number of dials she gives to him, next time she calls to ask him if it’s ok for you to answer it.Then talk to her directly… ‘I appreciate the effort you put in the friendship between you and my man…would you like to have a get-together or get some coffee? Too bad it didn’t work out well between the two of you.Am happy that I met him.And am too glad to have a chance with him’.Your kindness will make her have second thoughts about sabotaging your relationship and will let her move on.
Mama Nkima is a marriage counselor and relationship expert who has dedicated her life to helping couples build strong, healthy relationships. She has academic degrees in Education and Psychology.She has over 40 years of experience helping couples and individuals work through their relationship issues.
She draws on her own experiences as a spiritual guide but also from years of research to offer readers practical, actionable advice.
The third reason why he cant leave his wife for you is he is scared of the consequences of divorce.
Another reason he can’t leave his wife for you is he can’t bear the thought of him seeing another man coming into his children’s lives after separation.
He can’t leave his wife for you because he is still attached to the vows he made with his wife at the time of their union.
