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Its super hard for married men to hit on a woman until they are sure a of mutual view of affairs.
It’s not as easy for married men to start a new relationship as is for single men. For a married man, there is a lot at stake should you the miss not be of his view.
Integrity, Respect to both him and his wife is at stake should you not reciprocate.
Saying “I love you” especially for a married man is sometimes the hardest three words for him to blurt out because of the fear of rejection.
Poor them – It’s not surprising they invent all sorts of tricks to pock a stick in the whole and wait to see if anything comes out.
They say actions speak louder than words, therefore there are some non-verbal communication this guy could be exchanging to let you know that indeed he does love you but just not comfortable with showing that love to you verbally.
Instead of questioning him about his feelings towards you, take a look at these 4 signs that he’s falling for you.
In this writing i share with you some of the signals married men use to propose a relationship. You see a married man repetitively do any these signs, The ball is in your hands.
1. He looks at you with a preserved look.
To tell if a married man is interested in you, the first sign to lookout for is the way he looks at you.
We talk about this look so lightly than its worth. A look from a man interested in you is magnificently intoxicating.
He looks at you like he has seen an angel. A look from a man who adores you is like a look that was reserved for only you.
These looks are not hard to notice, every time he makes the looks, he makes sure you see him.
Until you reciprocate, the look frequencies keeps on growing in number.
So the next time you catch a married man looks, lookout for a simple smile on his face, then you know you have a second sign.
How do you know a married man is in love with you, has it ever happened to you? It happens to a lot of women and we are just about to blow you mind with small signs that you probably been ignoring.
2. He hides his ring when he is around
When a wedding ring disappears, it lets him play with the notion – he is free to flirt. After all no one is watching.
He feels guilty flirting with you – knowing he is married. To him, it feels like his wife is watching him flirt. Read: How to Flirt with A Married Man
So what he does? He hides it.
That rings makes him feel like there is this invisible person – wife watching him flirt with you. Hiding it makes him feel safe to flirt with you.
So if you see a ring on his fingers in his social media posts, or at times when he is with her, and that ring keeps on disappearing when he is with you – Just know that guy is actually in love with you.
3. He gets closer (Check the physical contact he makes to you)
Body language is inescapable. When we are into somebody we definitely act different than when we are friends with them.
You feel that magnetic pull of wanting to get closer to that person when get a chance to get in contact with them.
One of the signs a married man is falling in love with you is the physical contact he tries to make with you.
He often makes it a point to be near you, most of the time intruding in your bubble.
When he talks to you he would often touch your hand or shoulder.
Most guys would avoid touching you most especially when its early in a relationship.
Society wants you to put want they want first, When is it time to put what you want first?
4. When you catch him looking at you – he shy away with a smile
Another sign a married man is interested in you, is the way he shy away after you catch him looking at you. Then he does it again.
He makes you the focal point of his gazes.
When you are close to him, carefully watch how frequently he looks as well as smiles at you and the eye contact. Does he smile at you more than anyone usually does? If he does, then he definitely likes you a ton times.
He is doing what i called the polite flirt in How to Flirt with A Married Man
5. He engages you into conversations about your relationship
Another sign a married man has romantic feelings for you, is how he always finds a way to engage you into talking about relationships. Most of the times yours relationship.
It’s not a normal behavior for people of opposite sex that don’t know each other that much to talk about their relationship affairs.
People of opposite sex don’t just talk about each other’s relationship affairs not until you are interested in each other.
A married man interested in you would always ask you staff like how is your boyfriend, Husband etc.
The point is – if he tries so much to make you talk about your past, present, and feature relationship affairs, then that man is interested in you.
6. He keeps his eye on you from a distance
If this man likes looking at you, sometimes eyeing you up whilst you are around him, or keep his eye on you from a distance, then it is likely that there is something he sees about your body that makes him turn his head towards you.
It may be that he loves your thick, curly way hair, or the fact that you have boldly outstanding small firm breasts, or your round shaped hips or your eyes.
There is something about you that is pulling him towards you and that is why he keeps on looking at you for a long time.
When you are close:
- Does he direct his entire upper body towards you?
- Does he point his feet at you?
- Does he mirror your actions like crossing his legs?
If he does, then it tells that he wants you all the time. This indicates that he may have romantic feelings for you that is why he does that.
7. He tries to look good around you
Do you also notice a change whenever he is around you – Where he attempts to look his best? i.e he tries to look good around you.
Does he always check his tie to see if it is positioned well?
Does he brush his hands over his clothes? Or he just repeatedly looks at his clothes to see if he is looking smart.
If so, then that is a sign that he wants to look good in front of you which is an indication of love.
8. He Smiles back when you smile at Him
I am sure you have experienced that when you like someone and you smile at him, the person smiles back. It is a pretty indication that you have mutual liking for each other. If you were to smile at somebody and the person did not smile back, the first thing that would come to your mind will be: ‘that person does not like me’.
In the same way, when a guy loves you, anytime you give him a smile, he will smile back because your smile will make his day and he will give back the smile positively.
Fact is, a person may like you but not smile back at you when you give him a smile, but if he loves you, when you smile at him, he will smile back.
9. He tells you he love you
How obvious? but read on..
But rare in married men. Married men don’t usually tell their mistresses they love them.
This is true because many times these men only utter lies to mistresses. They know the hard truth behind their secrete relationships. The truth being its all lie, he knows he won’t leave his wife. Heartless they promise a lot to get what to the center of their mistresses legs.
Not all married men are heartless. Its just a hard fact, There is one word they never say to their mistresses. Married men never tell mistresses they love them.
So When a married man tells you he loves you. Smile for a milestone.
When a married man says i love you, is one of the signs a man is in love with his mistress.
You know he is in love with you when he starts to verbally confess to your affection to him.
Though just saying i love you does not guarantee he will leave his wife for you, at least its a sign the from many married men tend to say to mistresses. You got him to open up and confessed his affection to you.
10. He gets jealous when he sees you around other men.
This is another dead giveaway that the married man likes you. It is one indicator shows whether he likes you or not.
If he’s jealous of the guys you hang out with, then it can only be for one reason: because he likes you and feels threatened by them. He thinks that they might take you from him. He may feel you are his and get jealous when he sees you around other men.
If this married guy shows signs that he seems to be threatened by you having a fantastic time with some other cute guy , then he may be in love with you.
For example, you are seated at the beach and he notices an attractive stranger who approaches with a nice smile and he sees you giving him back the smile, to prevent you from developing further interest in the stranger, he may decide to disrupt you by calling you for a boat ride or join your conversation. In my Signs a married man is jealous you will find proven signs that your married boyfriend is jealous of you.
11. He compliments you
A man who is interested in you will he always finds a way to give you a compliment, whether about something so obvious like ‘you look so beautiful today’, ‘I like your skin color’ Or he may compliment about your possessions and achievements.
12. He immerse himself in your life
It’s only natural that if a man likes you, he’ll go out of his way to keep you engaged in a conversation. He may ask you questions which may seem pointless like ‘Did you eat at night? Did you sleep? This can also be an attempt to find similar interests to talk about.
13. He make himself the victim of unloving, uncaring, unfaithful wife
A married man who wants to have an extra marital relationship will always talk about his unhappy marriage. He will always make himself the victim of unloving, uncaring, unfaithful wife in order to gain sympathy from someone he is interested in.
He wants to start opening up to you and wants to tell you whats going on with him emotionally. Men have a habit of being vulnerable to women in this way as a symbol to her that she is special to him. weather or not he will leave his wife for you this is a sign this guy is into you.
14. He leaves his wife for you
Like Mama Nkima answered this Quora question, If a married man is in love with you, he will most likely leave his wife for you. He may not be ready to do so right away, but if he’s truly in love with you, he will eventually come around and leave her.
When he’s finally free of that commitment and able to be with you, he’ll show his true feelings.
Another thing to look for is whether or not the man is willing to put in effort to be with you. If he’s really in love with you, he’ll go out of his way to make time for you and spend time with you.
A married man who’s truly in love with you will do whatever it takes to be with you. He’ll leave his wife and children for you, and he’ll never look back. So if you want to know whether a married man is truly in love with you, just make him leave her. The answer will be clear soon enough.
Society wants you to put want they want first, When is it time to put what you want first?
Men falls in love with a woman because he feels a special connection with her. In other instances, its the level of comfort a man feels when he is with that woman. Married men fall in love with other women to run away from luck of satisfaction from their relationships.
Make every moment with you memorable.
Be the woman that acknowledges what his wife doesn’t.
Give him attention, most married men would crave for physical attention for years. I have a full article on the subject here.
Control your expectations, never call him when he is with his family, make every moment with you memorable. Don’t make him chase you. Men don’t fall in love with women who make them chase. Don’t worship him. Men don’t quickly get turned off with non challenging woman. Make a spell to make him leave his wife
Signs a married man secretly loves you.
If a married man secretly loves you, and falling in love with you, one of the signs may be that he tries to spend as much time with you as possible. Another sign may be that he makes an effort to hide his affection from his wife.
If you’re in a relationship with a married man and you believe that he loves you, the best thing you can do is force him to divorce his wife and commit to being with you. Don’t wait around hoping that things will change; they rarely do. Be proactive and take charge of your own destiny. You deserve to be happy and loved wholeheartedly, and there’s no reason why you should have to settle for anything less.
There are many signs a married man secretly loves you, but the most obvious one is when he’s forced to divorce her. If he’s truly in love with you, he’ll leave his wife and be with you. Otherwise, he’s just using you for sex and will never leave his wife. Read: Why he can’t leave his wife for you.
Signs a married man likes you but is hiding it
There can be many signs a married man likes you, but is hiding it. One of the most common sign a married man likes you more than a friend is that he’ll start to act differently around you. He might become more flirty, or even seductive. He may also try to spend more time with you, or even make an effort to get closer to you emotionally.
Another sign a married man likes you more than a friend can be that he’ll become distant from his wife. He may stop being as attentive to her, or even start neglecting her altogether. This can often lead to marital problems, as the wife will start to sense something is going on and will become increasingly suspicious.
Below are some of the signs to lookout for in a married man that you suspect is hiding his feelings for you. These are signs a married man wants to cheat with you. Read the article i have attached below.
When a married man only wants to sleep with you.
When a married man only wants to sleep with you, it’s important to remember that you are not his only option. He is cheating on his wife with you, and he will continue to cheat on her with other women if you don’t make him choose between you and her.
Obviously, this is easier said than done, and it could end up being a costly and dangerous endeavor. But if you can somehow find the courage and resources to do it, hopefully you can finally free yourself from this manipulative and destructive relationship. Read: Lies married men tell their mistresses.
It may seem harsh, but the best way to make him choose is to force him to divorce her. If he really loves you and wants to be with you, he will do whatever it takes to be with you. And if he doesn’t want to be with you enough to leave his wife, then it’s probably time for you to move on anyway.
Married man likes me, but talks about his wife.
You’re in a pickle. You like this married man, but he talks about his wife all the time. What do you do?
The best thing you can do in this situation is to directly confront him about it. Tell him that you don’t appreciate hearing about his wife all the time and that it’s really getting in the way of your relationship.
Be assertive, but also be understanding. Perhaps he’s just trying to gauge your reaction to see how you feel about his wife.
If a married man is talking to you about his wife, it’s possible that he’s just trying to gauge your reaction. He may be testing the waters to see if you’re interested in hearing more about his relationship or if you’re available for something more. Read: Do married men miss their mistresses?
If he continues talking about her even after you’ve asked him nicely to stop, then you might have to take more drastic measures. He’s obviously not respecting your wishes, so you’ll have to force him to divorce. Read: How to Win a Married Man over His Wife?
14 Secrete Signs a married man is falling in love with you
- He looks at you with a preserved look.
- When you catch him looking at you – he shy away with a smile
- He engages you into conversations about your relationship
- He keeps his eye on you from a distance
- He tries to look good around you
- He Smiles back when you smile at Him
- He tells you he love you
- He gets jealous when he sees you around other men.
- He compliments you
- He immerse himself in your life
- He make himself the victim of unloving, uncaring, unfaithful wife
Having said what I have said, what this married man is feeling for you is not love, but lust. Why would a married man be in with love you? He must love his wife!(Please read why he can’t leave his wife for you)
So,If you are not yet in a knee deep with him, don’t get involved. I advise that you resist his attempts to get be his mistress.
You do not want to break up someone’s marriage, do you? What you do to others is the same thing that others will do to you. If you lead on this man and be the reason to break his marriage up, then another woman will also entice your husband one day. Turnabout is fair play without giving them the excuse.
Of course unless you are ready to perform some love spells to protect your relationship against all the wanna be his.
Therefore, do not give this man space. Do not agree to be ‘the other woman’. Find your own man who will love only you.
But, if he cannot say why he is even looking at another woman while being married, if he doesn’t have a legitimate reason for being separated (at the least) from the woman he is married to….then, it’s quite possible that he just wants sex.You can find some tips in my how to stop dating a married man? if you wanna leave him
Should you want to force him to leave his wife you!
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Mama Nkima is a marriage counselor and relationship expert who has dedicated her life to helping couples build strong, healthy relationships. She has academic degrees in Education and Psychology. She has over 40 years of experience helping couples and individuals work through their relationship issues.
She draws on her own experiences as a spiritual guide but also from years of research to offer readers practical, actionable advice.