Mama Nkima’s Frequently Asked Questions

You may find some of the answers below useful if you’re looking for a better understanding of how My Spells work. If you don’t find what you’re looking for below contact Mama Nkima

Note: If submitting an inquiry, please include as much information as necessary in order to best support you, with your Relationship issue.



Does the spell wear off, if so – when?

No, the spell never wears off. It’s a powerful hex that Mama Nkima cast on your married boyfriend and it will last for life. Unless she specifically removes the hex, it will stay with him for life.


Mama Nkima is a powerful witch and her spells are very effective. She has been casting hexes for many years and has never had one backfire.


So you can be sure that this hex will definitely take effect and will stay unless you decides to lift the spell then she can lift it on your behalf. otherwise it will stay with your boyfriend soon to be husband for life.



Can anything trigger the spell to be broken?

Yes. The spell can be broken if it was never properly protected after casting. Like i always say, if one can see what we did, one can break it.


To keep all my spell casting safe from being broken, I use different type of protection. I might use a physical object like a bracelet or necklace. I might use symbols that only those initiated in my coven would know the meaning of. And I might even bind the spell to an event like a person’s birthday.


But, in this case, I simply used a protection spell that will keep the hex from being broken. So, no, nothing can trigger the spell to be broken if i protected it. It is permanent.


The only thing that can trigger the spell to be broken is if you decide you dont need your married boyfriend. If you decides to break up with him or divorce him, then the spell will be broken.

Mama Nkima designed the hex in this way so that it would not cause suffering for either party involved.



Is there any consequences of this spell?


No, there are no consequences of this spell other than the fact that your married boyfriend will now be yours and soon on his way to leave his wife.


He will not be able to cheat on you or even think about cheating on you even not with his wife or soon to be ex-wife.


Mama Nkima would never cast a spell that would cause harm to anyone. Her spells are meant to help people, not hurt them.



If the spell works in 4 days, (how soon can I expect to see him actually leave her)?


The spell works in away that leaves no room for speculations. We want it to be as efficient and as natural as possible so that there are no room for suspecting use of any external forces on him.


This is so important that he or his direct family dont get to find out about the spell. The last thing we want is for him to be ridiculed by his friends and family.


So, in short, you can expect him to leave her as soon as possible, usually within 4 days after the spell has been cast.


Now, this doesn’t mean that he will pack his bags and leave her on the fourth day. It means that on the fourth day, he will start having thoughts about leaving her. He will become more and more distant from her. And he will start making preparations to leave her.
He will realize that he is no longer happy with his wife and it during that time that he will gradually start to respond to your command lines.


It could take up to 6 weeks for him to actually leave her. During this time, you will get to enjoy having him all to yourself without having to share him with his wife.


If he decides to continue staying with her, it will be all for preparations on how things should end and how to start a new life with you.


I hope this answers your question on how soon you can expect the spell to work. If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask. Thank you for your interest in my craft!


The leaving part will take effect as soon as he sets his foot outside his house with the intention of leaving her for good. It doesn’t matter if it takes him a day, a week or even a month to actually leave her, as long as he confides in you about the whole plan not knowing you know more than he does, give him time.



For my command list, what are the rules I’m allowed to wish him to do, anything I want? Or are some things off limits?


There are no rules what soever about how you make your command line list. The command-line list is bound to have anything you want, No limits at all.


Now, this doesn’t mean that you can order him to do things that are impossible or things that would harm him in any way. It just means that you can be as creative as you want with your list.


For example, you could command him to drop all fears of divorce and act on his desires to leave her without hesitation, you can command him to always put you first, to always be honest with you, to always be loyal to you, to always be loving and affectionate towards you, etc.


You could also command him to do things like buy you flowers every week, take you on weekly dates, surprises you with gifts, always make sure your needs are met before his, etc.


Basically, anything that you can think of that would make your relationship with him better, you can put on your command line list.



How do I know that it will work, and what if it doesn’t?


There is no way for you to know if my spell will work apart from trying it out for yourself. I have been practicing this craft for over 40 years and have helped countless women get the man they want using my spells.


This is an interesting question, one that i some times for some reasons i don’t want to engage.


The reason i don’t want to engage with this kind of question is it turns me into a business person. It makes me go against what i stand for. I stand for never to allow my self talk all good about myself. That’s what business people do not spiritual leaders no.


It does not even make sense, when you ask such a question, you are asking for proof, and when you ask for proof, you are asking for a reason to not believe. Proof and reasons are two different things.


A reason is logical, it is based on the evidence that you have gathered so far. Proof is something that goes beyond that, it is conclusive, it is undeniable.


When you ask for proof, you are asking for something that i cannot give you, because it would be meaningless. It would be like asking me to prove to you that the sun will rise tomorrow. I can give you a million reasons why it will rise, but in the end, you will have to see it for yourself.


The same goes for my spell. I can give you a million reasons why it will work, but in the end, you will have to see it for yourself.


I am not going to try and convince you that my spell will work, because that would be pointless. If you are looking for proof, then you are not ready to take the first step.


Another reason why i think its pointless to ask me if my powers will work is, i guess you are trying to determine if i am not impersonating what i say i am, lets assume i am impersonating, What do you think i will say to you? Do you expect a bad person to say “my powers will not work”?


The answer is no, of course not. So there is no point in asking me if my powers will work or not, because even if i were a bad person impersonating powers i don’t have, chances are I would still say it will work just so i could get to your pocket.


So every time i am put in the position to prove my powers, i feel like i am pulled down to equate with whom we call bad people in our practice.


I don’t do that. you would rather be the one to talk good about me. That’s the only time it makes sense.


Also i guess i am just used to my clients being the one to talk good about me.



Do I get my money back if he doesn’t leave her, what guarantee do I have that he will leave?


No i don’t offer money back guarantees, and again i don’t give guarantees and profs about what i do. And i have reasons why.


Spirituality is not a business and i think its better people stopped treating it as one. Any time you find a spiritual guide that will to stoop that law, be skeptical , be very very skeptical.


The reason i don’t offer guarantees is because I think that when you make a decision to change your life, you should be 100% committed to it. If you are not, then chances are you are just desperate and don’t even believe in what you do.


If you are to engage with spirituality, its best you learn about spirituality and gain knowledge about it. To us this is our religion, culture, and identity not a trading business.


There is so much information about me all around me, i am confident about what i do and say is because i have practiced what i do for over 40years. I am not just some random person, I am Mama Nkima.

Does he need to be near me as he has moved four hours drive away for his work?

No, as long as i have his photo, he can be anywere in the world, it does not matter.

In all honesty do you feel that he loves me as he says he does?

Thats the whole point of for you to come seek my help. I am to remove all the obstacles that finds them selves between your love for each other. this includes his wife or anything he is scared to loose if he moved forward with you.

Am I better letting him go as he loves his wife as well?

The part for letting go is your decision to make. you must have reasons why you want this man. I would say its those reasons you should weigh against. Because as far as who to choose, once i am done he wont have a choice any more. what you want is what he will do.
But if you feel even after we win him you don’t see him as your best choice, then think twice. If you need time to decide, i can give you time

Will this ritual effect me or any of my family members negatively or will I have any negative consequences for me doing this now or in the future?

No, it will not have any negative effect on you or your family members. Casting spells is a completely safe and benign activity.


However, some religions deliberately paint spell, black magic or witchcraft as dangerous and evil in order to keep their followers in line.


Spells cast by a professional spell caster are safe. As such, religions are scared of the power that one can possess as a result of spiritualism.


Do not let anyone’s ignorance deter you from pursuing what you want – it can only bring positive results to you and your loved ones. Thanks for asking!

Do I ever have to tell him about this?

No the last person you want to know about what you did to them is your man. He must never ever know what you did. This is your secrete to take with to your grave. Infact if he ever finds out what you did to his, it will break the spell there and then. Its a way to let him free from your spell if he finds out.

Will this work as effective if you perform this on my behalf?



Yes it will work as effective. It does not matter whether you perform it with me or I perform it alone. The results will be the same. As long as you give me an exhaustive list of command lines.


I use your command lines to command the spell what to do on your behalf. The only reason i involve you is because you know your situation better than any other person and can articulate specific commands that no other can be able to articulate like you.


But if i have all the commands that you want the spell to carry out on your behalf, i can go ahead and command the spell even in your absence.


The only thing that is important is that the commands should be specific and exhaustive. Without these two factors, the spell will not be able to work as intended.