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To make a man fall in love with you, you need to attract his attention (Verbal Que, Eye contact, With a Smile), Create values he will be scared to lose, Keep a distance, Play independent, Don’t be rude, Flow with the flow, Don’t be so serious about life, Avoid serious talks about life during first dates, Create values he will be scared to lose.
This is somewhat a broad question. Before I dive into details, your question begs for more questions to safely arrive at a conclusions.
What’s the state of your current relationship?
- Is he some you talk to and he talks to you back?
- How often do you see him?
- Is he a friend of yours?
- Do you work together?
- Is he just a crush that you have never got a chance to talk to?
Since I can’t have your answer to my questions above, here we can only give broad answers to the question that tries to compromise on any of the questions above.
First Lets assume you work (could be staying) in close proximity with this man. Let me assume you talk to this man. But you have never had a chance to tell him straight in his face exactly what you and your heart say about him behind his back.
That is you have never had a chance to tell him the truth about how your heart feels about him.
If that man you are looking for is married, then checkout How to make a married man fall madly in love with you
Attract his attention (Verbal Que, Eye contact, With a Smile)
Want to make a man fall in love with you? Start by attracting his attention. For women, its not as hard to attract a man’s attention as it is with men attracting women’s attention.
To a Man, just a “Hello” with good eye contact and a bit more lengthy smile is enough for a man to notice that something is going on behind that little sneaky head of yours.
In fact, a man will notice your effort for attention most probably on your first take.
Ladies that’s not hard, is it? Once you pass that phase, you are doing good. you are on your way to make a man fall in love with you. lets see how keeping a distance adds a mix to the cocktail.
Keep a distance
Men are like a wild carnivorous animal. They eat other animals for meal, but did you know they don’t like to eat what they never hunted?
That’s a man for you. Men psychologically hate the experience – if its so easy to get to your heart. So even though you are tasked to sending signals to this man, you should abstain from trying to be in his face all the time.
Ladies i am not saying – go out there and become a rock hard on this poor man. I also want to remind you, men don’t like it if a woman is so so hard to get to. Its a put off for them. So if you want to this man to fall in love with you, balance your keep distance game.
It’s more advisable to only send your signal when you bump into each other at random.
Don’t get into his face at all times. Our goal is to even make him be the one to pursue this idea as if he is the one who wanted you first.
You like a long lasting respectful relationship with a man, make him ask for it.
If you have spotted a man you like from where you work or around your home and you want to make that man fall in love with you, be a price.
limit your company with other men. try to not hang around with other men you don’t like. Decent men like falling in love with self respected women.
Am not saying you should be rude to other men, but a smile that he only receives and not any other men around can get, make him feel so special. who will not fall in love with a woman with self worthiness.
Since you keep to only female company and not other men, you are most likely to nail him faster than you thought it might take.
For men, it’s a pride to have something that another man can’t afford to have that makes him feel scared to loose you.
For men, it’s a pride to have something that another man can’t afford to have.
Read about my signs a married man is attracted to you to know some of the signs to lookout for to see if you are nailing him.
Don’t be rude
Men fall in love with a woman for no other reason other than the ability to predict what will happen to him tomorrow.
Men want to predict dominance in a relationship before it even starts. A rude person is so hard to predict.
Predictions for a rude person are less of anything attracting to a man.
Men are completely put off by rude or arrogant women. They see you as someone that they cannot have control over.
Men definitely love a woman who can take a stand, but if it’s in the form of arrogance, he’d stay a mile away from falling in love.
Avoid being rude and or perceived as an arrogant woman.
Flow with the flow, Don’t be so serious about life
For men, meeting a new women for a relationship, in their mind it is always about having fun period.
It becomes even more fun to them if you also let the encounter flow just as their minds wish in the begging.
Show no expectations just fun, after all, you have just mate each other what do you know about each other anyway?
Stay away from making commitment talks at this stage.
Keep it fun and let him make all the connection by himself.
Be aware of rejection
You want to win him, you want to make him fall in love with you but for wired reasons you are scared.
You are scared of rejection. Remember you lose all if you don’t try. so be aware of that emotion and don’t let it stand in your way.
If you are like me and want things quick cast a spell on him.
I hate wasting time. If I have a short cut to the destination, then why knowingly take a longer root.
Am serious I cast love spells and I see a lot of people who doubt at first but then end up mesmerized smiling like kids jumping up and down simply because they actually never thought for a quick response from the man of their dreams.
If you want more information on an attraction love spells, contact me
Avoid serious talks about life during first dates
The worst mistake women make at this stage of a relationship, is starting to talk about responsibilities such as kids, marriage, financial support and all sorts.
Men’s brains work differently. at this stage of a relationship, all they want is just someone who flows with their mind’s expectation.
The only expectation in a man’s mind at this stage is fun, sex, and more fun.
This does not mean men don’t care. They do – but a fun woman is hard to come by. So the increasing amount of fun they get from your presence, starts to shape their minds into responsibilities and planning of what they must do for you or to support you so they don’t lose that fun..
See it goes back to fun. While a woman’s mind in the first stages of life is about “how can i avoid giving him my heart until I know he is serious”?
For men if you flow with his mind, he is like “she is a fun person to hang out with” I should hang out more with her and the more you get him into that kind of thinking, the more you automatically make him care.
Create values he will be scared to lose
During the first stages, they don’t know of any value they are to lose if you left them.
So if you come with all the seriousness of life, he sees you as a liability.
Avoid changing him. Remember you found him free, he can do whatever he wants at any time he wants.
All over a sudden you are asking him to drop his lifestyle. But why?
If you want him to see you as a price not worthy losing, let him be the one to change his lifestyle without you asking.
In my how do I make him worry about losing me I, in details, share tips on how you can make him see you as a price not to lose.
Make a spell on him
Mama Nkima is a marriage counselor and relationship expert who has dedicated her life to helping couples build strong, healthy relationships. She has academic degrees in Education and Psychology. She has over 40 years of experience helping couples and individuals work through their relationship issues.
She draws on her own experiences as a spiritual guide but also from years of research to offer readers practical, actionable advice.