You know he will leave her for you if:
- He is not bothered by talking about plans for his current relationship,
- He is never in a hurry to leave when he visits you,
- He also mentions leaving his wife to other people (Friends, co-workers),
- He does not lie to his wife for you,
- He introduces his children to you,
- He introduces you to some of his family,
- He often talks about divorce,
- His marriage is really troubled,
- He Doesn’t Hide When He’s in Public with You,
- He Consistently Chooses You Over His Wife
It amazing how haters quickly jump on to the wagon with all sorts of judgments and negativity when a topic about a married man leaving his wife for his mistress is brought about.
Haters would hate, Just get used to the phrase.
Men don’t leave!!
A Married man can, and they always leave their wives period. A statement like men don’t leave is an understatement.
To all haters and judges out there, a quick advice from Mama Nkima – You might very well say Men Don’t Cheat. Why bother beat the bush?
You see? as statement like “men don’t cheat” is such a naive statement, just like it’s naive to say “dating a married man is only for his sexual pressure he will never leave his wife for his mistress”.
Watch-out A man who cheats on his wife, is very well capable of leaving her for another woman.
Here, I share with you signs for mistresses to lookout for in a man that cheats on his wife.
1. He is not bothered by talking about plans for his current relationship.
If he is free and unbothered to talk about what he plans for his current marital relationship in contrast to yours, then you know he is here to stay and probably is ready to move on with you.
Its had and uncomfortable for a man who is still in love with his wife to talk about leaving his with. you might be lucky to get him to talk about it once or twice, but not more.
Its hard because if he is not in love with you and he is not willing to leave her for you, means – Most of his conversation with you are lies.
Lying is hard
The problem with lies is, You lie once, you have to lie again to protect the first lie. Lying can quickly and easily become hard to keep up with.
Lies makes your brains work harder. When you lie, you always have to remember your previous lies.
So be cautious if your married boyfriend always refrains from talking about what he plans for his current wife.
On another note though, if he openly talks about such plans, and never contradicts himself, as well as being consistent with what he say. that’s a sign he would leave his wife for you.
2. He is never in a hurry to leave when he visits you.
You know a man intends to ditch his marriage for you when he shows you he has that decision already made. One way to show you such readiness is how relaxed he gets when he visits you.
A lying married man constantly checks his time to be back home. A sign to lookout for.
A lying married man’s visits are always concise and straight to the point. If its sex, its sex and he leaves.
A man who intends to leave his wife for you, makes decisions to leave his wife way before he meets you.
This means – in most cases, even the wife knows about whats coming for her. So when he visits you, he has no need to rush back home because since she knows about you, he has less or no explanations to make when he goes back home.
3. He also mentions leaving his wife to other people (Friends, co-workers).
Another sign to lookout for in a man for assurance that he intends to leave his wife for you is, – if you ever hear any other person other than him mentioning that he at some point said he intends to leave his wife. That means one thing. This man is unhappy in his marriage.
vulnerable isn’t he?
Men don’t just negatively talk about there wives with friends. Its only unhappy husband that would even dare mention a thought of leaving their wives to friends.
So you know he will leave her for you if somebody else other than him also knows about his wife’s fate.
4. He does not lie to his wife for you
There are many signs a married man is in love with you but Probably one of the biggest sign he will leave his wife for you, is if he told his wife, he is in a relationship with you.
There is no any other sign whatsoever that shows a married man’s interest in being with you than him voluntarily opening up to his wife about your secrete relationship.
If he tells her about your affair, It means they have talked about whatever is going on in there marriage, and its not your fault at all that he is with you.
5. He introduces his children to you
A man that intends to create a long lasting relationship with you, introduces you to his children.
Just imagine for a second, How much explanations do you thing he has to give to his children before and after he introduced them to you. Again how much explanation do you think he has to give to his wife for bringing her children to you.
All for what? to have sex with you? Hell no. that man is in love with you and he intends to be for a long time. He is creating a transition between you, his children and his soon to be ex-wife.
6. He introduces you to some of his family
His family know his wife, and most probably they know of their marital problems. Its a known behavior in men to complain about their marital problem to their family.
Family members give advises and opinions when problems arises.
So when a married boyfriend introduces you to his family, its a sign that he is about to leave his wife.
His move to show you to his family is sometimes seen as a confirmation of agreeing to the advises and opinions they’ve given him for a while.
No married man would introduce you to any of his family member if he was not serious with you.
7. He often talks about divorce
People talk about divorce when they think about divorce. A married boyfriend talking about divorce is a sign he thinks about leaving his wife for you.
why men leave women they love?
Common reasons why men cheat on their wives is to change their sexual lifestyle. They may be happily married but not satisfied sexually.
That’s why some men rarely call their side women but only to call them when they need sex. However, if he wants to be in your life, wants to know your family, includes you in his life plans, talks about the future with you, then just know he will leave his wife for you.
8. His marriage is really troubled
- Do you sense trouble in his marriage?
- Do you sense daily conflicts when talking over the phone with his wife?
- Does he spend time with his wife when only carrying out a marriage business like paying bills and childcare?
If so, surely it is a sign that he will leave his marriage for you.
Happily married couples consider their friendship a priority but if he is only getting the happiness from you, and not his wife, then it is a damn good sign that he is comfortable with you and will definitely leave her for you.
9. He Doesn’t Hide When He’s in Public with You
Rumors spread faster than fire, but if he is not afraid to show you in public, it means that he is not afraid of what his wife’s feelings and the divorce itself.
Men keep their affairs private because they fear their marriages to fall apart.
It is not easy for a man to show his side chick in public, but if he is not afraid to show you, then he is completely over his wife and you are the soon to be his next wife.
10. He Consistently Chooses You Over His Wife
Being in a relationship with a married man has all sorts of complications, more so when it’s a secret relationship and the wife is unaware of it.
Marriage life needs a lot of time and commitment.
- But if your man drops everything to be just by your side
- You can secretly send him a message in the middle of the night because you a saw caterpillar on your bed and this man finds a way of leaving his wife in bed to come to your rescue.
It is official that he is willing to leave his wife for you.
Hope these signs can open up your eyes. Remember actions speak louder than words.
If you are not seeing any of the above signs, he is really not willing to leave his wife for you, however much he tells you so.